# The Truth about Rejection

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Rejection... Many of us ever feel these feelings, the feelings of being put down by others. At the moment, we may start to think that we don’t deserve to succeed, we may start to think that we are incompetent or we even may start to think that we have took the wrong direction or decisions. The question is “Why do we feel badly down for that?” and it’s continued with “What is your idea about rejection?”

Here is the ordinary people’s idea about rejection. We are use to thinking that this world should runs perfectly, so being rejected means that we are bad and being accepted means that we are good. Am I right?

If we think that good things must be accepted because they are good and that bad things must be accepted because they are bad, then we are in a big problem about the idea of rejection. I am not talking about good and right or bad and wrong, but when we rejected, at that moment we feel badly hurt and have an idea that we are standing at the wrong side. Is it true? This isn’t about arguing with someone who rejected us. But pay your attention please. They who had rejected us are an ordinary human too. And the question is, “As an ordinary human, could they stand on the wrong side or took the bad decisions?” The truth doesn’t only need to be the truth in order to be accepted, the truth in your eyes doesn’t mean the same in other people eyes. So why should we have to take a rejection become a big problems.

This is the truth about rejection from my inexperienced eyes. You may get rejected while you are good, you may be rejected while you are better than the person who rejected you, simply because this life is not a perfect one and consider that life isn’t always fair, however, if you did believe in yourself enough to fight till the end, your light will shine everywhere and your idea will be accepted and you will be the winner.

2 Comments:

JesieBlogJourney said...

Good post, Susanno. We are very complex beings. No matter how good a person is, someone will still come around and say he/she is bad.
While we may be rejected, let us not reject ourselves but continue our journey and stand tall.

LOL, I am working so hard that my eyes are rejecting me now. I have two companies to audit this week. If I don't get all the documents I need, isn't it like a form of rejection if I am weak?

Have a great day, STumbled.

Susanno said...

Thank you Jesie.. Glad you like it. Sure I believe you could handle your duty. Have a great day Jes..

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